Saturday, October 3, 2026 — Day 31
Malone, New York: Frolicking with Friends
We woke up Saturday morning excited simply to be with our friends, Jonathan and Susie, and their five-year-old Labrador Retriever, Sage.
Tad and Sage had so much fun running around the yard together yesterday that Tad could hardly wait to get outside and play with her again this morning. The feeling was obviously mutual. As soon as the two dogs were reunited, the frolicking commenced.
It was a perfect fall day.
After five consecutive days of clouds and rain, the sun finally broke through and welcomed us to northern New York. Jonathan and Susie live only about five miles from the Canadian border as the crow flies, and the countryside around Malone was ablaze with peak fall color.
It feels good to be here.
The Fosters are wonderful hosts. Susie made us a big breakfast, and we lingered around the table talking about the past, present and future while mapping out a plan for the day.
After breakfast, Janice and I each took showers. It felt luxurious not having to unload the motorhome's "water closet" and perform my usual gymnastic routine required to shower in that tiny space!
Clean, fed and refreshed and after giving Tad and Sage another opportunity to frolic, we piled into Susie's car and headed out to explore.
Our first destination was a place I had been looking forward to visiting: the boyhood farm of Almanzo Wilder.
When I was in grade school, I devoured the books of Laura Ingalls Wilder. Her Little House series, beginning with Little House in the Big Woods in 1932, told stories drawn from her family's experiences moving through Wisconsin, Kansas, Minnesota and Dakota Territory during the great westward expansion of the late 19th century. Laura was born February 7, 1867, and died February 10, 1957, just three days after her 90th birthday.
One of my favorites was Farmer Boy, published in 1933. Unlike most of the series, it wasn't about Laura's childhood. It told the story of her future husband, Almanzo Wilder, growing up on his family's farm near Malone. Almanzo's traditionally recorded dates are February 13, 1857, to October 23, 1949, although historical records leave some uncertainty about whether he was actually born in 1859. Laura and Almanzo married in 1885 and eventually settled at Rocky Ridge Farm near Mansfield, Missouri, in 1894. It was there, decades later, that Laura wrote the books that introduced generations of children, including me, to their world.
The period from immediately after the Civil War into the early 1900s has always fascinated me. My maternal grandparents were both born in Missouri in 1890, and they shared vivid stories with me about what it was like to live during an era when everyday life was being transformed at an astonishing pace.
So walking around Almanzo's boyhood farm felt a little like walking back through time.
Even more remarkably, the farmhouse is not a reconstruction. It is the original Wilder family home, the only original "Little House" residence still standing on its original site. Farmer Boy was based on Almanzo's memories of growing up there.
Standing in a place I had first visited through my imagination as a grade-school boy was very special. And sharing the experience with Janice, Jonathan and Susie made it even better.
Afterward, we meandered along the rustic country roads of northern New York, eventually arriving at an apple orchard. With the fall colors at their peak, the drive itself looked like a classic autumn postcard come to life.
The orchard store was quaint and filled with historic photographs of Malone. One photograph immediately caught our attention. It showed Babe Ruth signing autographs at the opening of the Malone Golf Course in 1939. The caption identified another man in the photograph as Lou Gehrig.
Jonathan immediately questioned the caption.
Something didn't add up.
Gehrig had already been diagnosed with ALS and announced his retirement from baseball during the summer of 1939. Could he really have been there with Ruth?
Hmmmm....
A historical mystery!
It was early afternoon by then, so we decided such serious investigative work required cider.
We found a table and sat together sipping our cider and talking. A few dozen locals were gathered there. Jonathan has played music at the orchard and knows the owner, so once again we weren't tourists passing through, we were experiencing a little piece of the community through our friends.
Eventually we headed back to Jonathan and Susie's classic white house, released the hounds, and settled onto the back porch to enjoy the beautiful afternoon.
Somewhere in the conversation, I made the mistake of mentioning cornhole.
The gauntlet was immediately dropped.
Jonathan was undoubtedly still smarting from our fantasy baseball league. We had tied at the end of the season, but I won the tiebreaker and finished third in the championship round, relegating him to fourth.
Clearly, vengeance was required.
Jonathan quickly established his superiority, beating me 21–11 in the first game.
I rallied in Game Two and made things considerably more respectable before losing 21–18.
At one point, on the same set of throws, we each put three of our four bags through the hole.
Perhaps we should go on tour! ;)
Sadly, Susie and Janice are both currently on injured reserve. Otherwise, I suspect the competition would have become considerably hotter.
After cornhole, Jonathan brought out two catcher's mitts.
Now we were entering familiar territory.
We were both catchers in high school. Jonathan was an All-State catcher and a talented three-sport athlete growing up here in the Malone area. Neither of us had played catch in years.
It was great fun.
My knuckleball was working surprisingly well.
My fastball?
Not so much.
Even an All-State catcher couldn't handle a couple of my wild pitches, which disappeared into the bushes.
Apparently the scouts won't be calling.
Around five o'clock, we headed into town for a plein-air art show. Jonathan and Susie seemed to know just about everyone there, and we enjoyed seeing work created by art students from around the state.
Jonathan had even made several of the frames holding paintings in the exhibit.
Once again, it was fun seeing Malone not simply as visitors but through the eyes and relationships of friends who are part of the community.
After the exhibit, we went to Donovan's Restaurant, where Janice and I finally had an opportunity to do something for our hosts by buying dinner.
It was one of the best restaurant meals I have ever had.
I ordered grilled Norwegian salmon served over rice, and it was absolutely delicious. Janice ordered the chicken Marsala and was equally impressed.
As we looked around the restaurant, I noticed that the walls were covered with historic photographs, many of them related to sports.
And then I saw it.
Babe Ruth!
There on the wall was the same photograph we had seen earlier at the orchard: Babe Ruth autographing a baseball at the dedication of the Malone Golf Course in 1939.
But there was one important difference.
This caption didn't say anything about Lou Gehrig being in the photograph.
Mystery solved!
Apparently Babe Ruth really did have a Malone connection. He was here in 1939, and surviving memorabilia from that year includes a Malone Maroons baseball schedule bearing his autograph.
Jonathan's baseball instincts had been right. Babe was here.
Lou apparently wasn't.
We returned to Jonathan and Susie's house and finished the evening watching the Major League Baseball playoffs together.
Baseball seemed like the perfect ending to a day that had unexpectedly woven together so many threads: childhood books and 19th-century history, autumn roads and apple cider, old photographs and Babe Ruth, cornhole and catcher's mitts, art and wonderful food.
But mostly, it was about friendship.
Tad and Sage frolicked.
Jonathan and I frolicked in our own slightly older and creakier fashion.
And Janice, Susie, Jonathan and I simply enjoyed the increasingly precious gift of having time together.
A perfect fall day in northern New York.
Our hearts are full of gratitude.